Tantra is a Sanskrit word means 'woven together'. In some places the sexual union of male and female is worshipped
either in principle or in human practice. It has also come to be applied
to sex-based religious practices developed in other religions, including
Bon, Tibetan , Judaism, Taoism, Christianity, Buddhism and
Transcendentalism. In Hindu religion there is worship of yoni (Yoni puja), a
ceremony honoring the vulva -- either of a statue or a living woman.
Depending this puja (prayer) may involve making offerings
of food and liquids while chanting prayers or it may involve the
deliberate sexual arousal of a woman who is believed to embody or
personify the deity. An other worship, the worship of the god Siva, has at its center linga puja, a
ceremony honoring the penis, often in the form of a natural upright
stone. Similar objects of worship have been found among the archaeological
remains of many Neolithic people around the world.
What is Tantra Sex
Its a practices that make use of
our natural sexuality as a means to achieve higher consciousness and
energy. The secrets have to do
with the ways we can transmute the life energies of the lower chakras into
the spiritual realizations of the higher spiritual centers. For doing
this we do not have to become sadhus, monks, nuns, or saints. We
have to continue the normal process of --- sleeping, dreaming, bathing,
dressing, dining, dancing, and making wonderful love. We have only to
change our outlook concerning them. Tantra Sex is also a procedure where one
can emit or receive energy through sex. These procedures are not
very hard to follow. There is also a myth that highly spiritual people are
sexless. Its wrong, spiritualism is every where, all you have to do is to
discover it with right path, right way.
The concept of sacred sex, Divine sex, Tantra sex what ever you call,
is to find spiritual
union through a sexual act, is slowly gaining ground all over the world. Our
psyches are certainly ripe for it. As a society we are obsessed with sex.
In part it is a lustily healthful obsession, a celebratory dance of life's
great force, but much of it flounders in darkness and neurosis - sex for
power, sex for profit, sex for oblivion.
You have to slowly learn the
rituals and process of Tantra Sex to move all wild sexual energy
around inside you, whole body orgasm, through eyes,
elbows or toes, becomes a real possibility, not just involving your
genitals. While learning to withhold ejaculation is part of the
process there is also a more relaxed, more fluid perspective that allows
for personal preference and ability. It will take some time to learn the
delights that come with delaying or eliminating ejaculation as you explore
the many other ingredients of tantrik sex practice - emotional and mental
as well as physical.
The Tantra sex goes far beyond the bedroom, helping partners open fully
to each other in trust and love through all facets of their relationship.
Your relationship itself helps for spiritual growth and
personal awareness. As you learn to open to yourself, to your own inner
lover, you naturally open to others around you. You begin to understand
that surrender does not mean submission or loss of self, but rather a
loving expansion to something that is much greater than you are.
Sacred sex teaches a discipline of the mind
and body. As a celebration of life, sacred sex teaches
the importance of conscious awareness, of being totally into
your actions. By focusing attention on your body and your mind, and what
you are doing with them, you become all around healthier. Your emotions
become more stable and more real. Your mental capacity increases. Your
physical health improves as you discover that your body is indeed the
temple of your soul and as you begin to honor it that way.
During
the practice of Tantra Sex you have to view sexual energy as a divine,
all encompassing life force that
sleeps within the individual, permeates the universe, and affects
everything you do from birth to death. As sexual beings, we have the
ability to raise that energy within ourselves and use it to directly
experience alternate or mystical states of consciousness. In effect, we
become gods and goddesses, our bodies transformed
into temples of male and female divinity.
Now The Time to Start
Tantra Sex Ritual
1. The place should be peaceful, undisturbed,
clean and with fresh air.
2. No high intensity lights, not very dark. It
should be only RED-colored light.
3. You should be wearing only white
soft cloths. Before starting the ritual you must be in your cloths, which
you remove slowly during the entire process.
4.Lit a fresh candle near
you (if there is no fan) the color of the candle must be red. No fancy
candles are allowed during the ritual.
5. Keep in mind that you are a
slave to your genital need.
6. Relax your belly and chest so your breath
can flow unobstructed, with full force and great ease. Relax your jaw,
face, and eyes, so the whole front of your body is soft, round, alive, and
vibrant, not stiff or tight
7. Male partner has to inhale deeply
down the front of his body, as if drawing energy from his head, down to
your face, through throat and chest, into belly, and down to the genitals.
Then contract the floor of your pelvis so it becomes like a
trampoline. As the energy comes down to front you bounce it off to pelvic
floor with an upward intention and muscular contraction of your anus,
genitals, and perineal area. Exhaling, shoot the energy back from
your genitals and upward along the spine. As the orgasm energy glides up
your spine, make your eyes turn up and great blisses rush in an upward
direction through your body, through the head, and up, up, up, as if into
a great space of light
8. Do whatever brings you almost to orgasm. This can be masturbation or
sexual activity with a supportive partner. Remember to relax and breathe
into your orgasmic state. Take your time. Bring yourself almost to orgasm,
backing off just before the point-of- no-return, several or more times.
What you're doing here is charging up the sexual battery.
9. It's easier
for women to do this process because orgasm is usually not an energy drain
for them . Women are able to climax multiple times gaining
tremendous energy from it. So, to my female readers, I encourage you to
relax, breathe, and have fun. It's also very helpful to strengthen your
PC/vaginal muscle and get in touch with your G/Sacred Spot.
10. When you
have almost reached orgasm, after coming close several times and you're
ready to let go, recall from your mind the reality you want to create and
energize it with focused intention. Make it vivid, exciting, big and
beautiful.
11. When you orgasm, keep focused on the picture/creation and
deliberately channel the orgasm into it. Just let it flow into the reality
you want to create. Remember to keep breathing during the orgasm and
breathe your orgasmic energy into your creation/ goal/ dream/ reality.
Stay focused and hold the picture. Your body will do the rest.
12. You
can repeat the process if you want to come to another orgasmic energy.